About Kate
I left my son's first IEP eligibility meeting really, really angry.
Not frustrated. Not disappointed. Angry, because I could feel something was wrong and I didn't have the knowledge or the tools to do anything about it. I walked out knowing I needed to fix this. For my son. And for every other family sitting in that same seat.
So I enrolled in and completed a special education advocacy program through Vanderbilt University. I studied under experienced advocates working across Middle Tennessee. I immersed myself in the law, the process, and the places where the system fails kids and those who support them. Almost ten years later, I haven't stopped.
That same drive to get this information into the hands of parents led me to TikTok, where my content has reached nearly 25 million views. I believe an educated parent isn't an adversary. They're prepared to collaborate and capable of speaking up when it matters.
This process is almost impossible to navigate if nobody's taught you how. You have to walk in knowing what to ask for, what to request, what to push back on, and what your rights actually are. Most parents don't, not because they aren't smart or don't care, but the information isn’t translated into something they can use, in language that connects to your situation.That's the gap I fill.
What I Believe
I don't think schools are the bad guys. I think most teachers are doing their best inside a system that overworks them, underfunds them, and doesn't always give them the room to fight for individual kids. Schools don't always tell you everything that's available. Services often reflect what's been done before, what's easy to offer, and what the team is already familiar with, not necessarily what your child actually needs or is entitled to.
The law says that's not good enough. And when a school tells you "this is our policy," I'm the person in the room who asks to see it in writing.
How I Work
I would rather work with a family before things go sideways than after. Early advocacy protects the relationship between your family and the school, minimizes the disruption for your child, and saves you money in the long run. A collaborative table is better for everyone, especially the kid who has to go back to that building on Monday.
I ask direct questions. I say the things other people in the room won't say. And if a district refuses to engage meaningfully or is actively harming your child, I know exactly when it's time to escalate.
What I want for every family I work with is simple: I want you to leave every meeting knowing what happened, why it happened, and what you're allowed to do next. An educated parent walks into that room prepared to collaborate and advocate.
I'm here to make sure you have that knowledge.
Advocacy Uncensored. Because educated parents can change outcomes.